The one with Someday revisited ~ Donating my hair

The one with Someday revisited ~ Donating my hair

“The most interesting things in life happen just outside your comfort zone.” ~ Michael Hyatt

Last week I shared a couple of posts with you about confronting the fear that has held me back from the hopes, dreams, and ambitions that I have always said that I would do… Someday.

In the first post I let you in on my little secret. As I was reading back over my own article, it had me thinking…and coming back to my list of Somedays. The first one on my list was that Someday I would donate my hair. This led me to tell you that I had decided to not put it off for another Someday.

The way that cancer touched my little family this year, and looking over the list of things that I have always said that I would get around to accomplishing…I refuse to let this continue. I researched the different hair donation organizations, and I settled on Children With Hair Loss. They provide free wigs to little ones who are battling cancer, alopecia, and other reasons for hair loss. It was so exciting that I felt that my haircut couldn’t come fast enough!

I visited my stylist at The Perfect TouchΒ on Friday night. She has been cutting my hair since I was 13, and I trust her completely with my mop top! As I explained to her why I wanted to do this, she hugged me as I cried in her chair. I cried mixed tears of fear about my Beloved’s history with cancer, a little bit of “attagirl” for finally stepping outside of my comfort zone, and happiness to be doing something that might help someone else. We wiped the tears, I found my smile again, and we were ready to get started!

Before ~

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During ~

Jen, my stylist, sectioned off 5 separate ponytails as the Children With Hair Loss website instructed. After one final check to make sure that I was ready to make the chop, she cut away 12 inch sections of my hair. Not once in the three days since then have I regretted my decision at all. I liked my long hair. It was familiar. It was my security blanket and my comfort zone, but now it will belong to someone else. It will possibly belong to a little girl fighting the battle of her life – someone so much braver than I could ever hope to be. It is my prayer that running her fingers through her new locks will bring a smile to her face, and will help her family to know that someone in Kansas is thinking of them!



I have been blessed with good hair genes – thanks, Mom and Dad! – and my thick head of hair could take forEVER to dry before my cut. Since cutting my hair, it’s dry in only a few minutes! This is going to free up so much extra time in the mornings! For this picture, I styled it exactly the same as I did my long hair – the only difference being that it didn’t take as long. Win-win all around!


Seeing our boys’ reactions was pretty funny! They stopped, tilted their heads to study me, and said, “Uhh…oooookaaaaaay.” After taking it in for a few minutes, Camden said that it was the same as my old hair, only now my long earrings showed. Aiden had been under the impression that I would be shaving my head to give ALL of my hair away – I guess that’s what he took away from my conversation with him the day before – so he seemed to be relieved that not all of my hair was gone! Quinn hesitantly touched the ends and said that he missed my old hair, but he would still like my new hair.

Even my Beloved likes it! It was so nice to feel his fingers running through my shorter curls and to know that he thinks it’s cute! That was my worst fear – that he wouldn’t like it – but now my remaining fear has been put to rest!


I can’t believe that I let fear keep me from donating my hair in the past. It was so easy, and it’s amazing how happy I feel to be going this short! Knowing that the hair is on its way to a wonderful organization to be made into a wig for a little girl – it warms my heart and makes me anxious for my hair to grow long enough to donate again!

Let’s encourage each other! I would love to hear from you…What can you cross off of your Someday list TODAY? What is holding you back from reaching the goals that sit a little out of your reach – just a bit outside of your comfort zone? Please, please, please don’t let fear hold you back for one more day. Do something, anything to break those chains that are keeping you from so much more. You will never know how good it feels to be free – and how much you may be able to bless someone else – until you let go.

Here’s to letting go…


~ G

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  • Mark Allman says:

    I am proud of you for doing that. Your hair looks great long and short. A good friend of mine always says in relation to hair concerns….”it’s only hair… it’ll grow back”. I am glad your family liked it. Way to go!

  • Crystal says:

    It’s adorable! And I’m so proud of you for stepping outside your comfort zone and making your someday a reality! You inspire me!

    Not sure if you follow Jon Acuff, but this made me think of your post:

    • ginger says:

      Thank you so much, Crystal! It’s so much fun to get used to – it feels so light and sassy! πŸ™‚ I had not followed Jon Acuff on Instagram in the past, but I am NOW! That photo was so timely, and it’s becoming more and more important to me. πŸ™‚

  • Jan says:

    Hey Ginger! Lovely story, and I’m going to let your story inspire me to make a “someday” list! I’ve never done that and am so excited to start. Thanks so much for sharing!

    • ginger says:

      Hiya Jan! Thank you so much for sweet comment and visiting my little corner of the world! πŸ™‚ I’m so glad that you were inspired! Writing out my list really helped me to see that I needed to face my fears and get started on the things that I had been putting off until Someday. πŸ™‚ I am excited to hear what you cross off of your list!

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